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Thank you Tyrone!
I agree man, but at the moment there aren't many other sources. There's some daygame options at the beach or the dog park but it's nowhere near consistent as nightlife. The thing about online is, I do catch fish there, it's just the amount of effort/time spent doesn't always outweigh the reward. I keep my dick wet, but it's been seeming like it's becoming more and more difficult and i'm not trying to commit to one woman in particular.
I believe you're right and I was just conversing with a friend about this, online is probably so saturated at the moment that it's literally becoming more of a lottery and even good game just doesn't bring the same results as it used to.
I dunno, the struggle is real tho...
[–]do-u-speak-croissant 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Same. I match with 8s and higher and experience the same thing. So, I’m starting to go into my contact list of women I know and text them instead to see what happens. Thus, I’m beginning to reach out to my own network in addition to the Tinder game.
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Re-runs are good to have. I've always heard from the gurus that online should never be your primary method of meeting girls, unfortunately right now it is for me and it may have to remain that way until the world gets it's shit together regarding this BS virus. I'm certain the numbers of guys to girls online is higher than it's ever been and it's fucking up the entire game. I'm sure rich, instagram influencer types are raking it in, but for the one's who don't rely and glitz and glam, we're getting pretty fucked.
Game used to be poker, but it's becoming slot machines :/
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Yeah, I just texted a girl I met in real life if she wanted to do a hobby we share and she agreed. She’s on Hinge and I didn’t bother swiping right on her and trying to talk through the app. She’s attractive, so I know her Hinge is spammed with likes/messages from guys wanting to do what I just did. I was able to short circuit the process. The convo was instant.
I juxtapose this with matching with hot girls on Tinder where I text them back/forth a while and then they ghost/flake before the first date. It’s much, much easier gaming women you know in real life vs online, but unfortunately due to covid we don’t have that luxury as much now.
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