I am in KC and we recently got hit with a Super cold streak, 'single digits' hella cold right... So Wed. @ this place/ bar&grill, live DJ, really hot spot is popular... NE WAYZ- DD for my friends and we went to just hang for a couple hours after work; I had an epiphany... Any single female dressed up is out tonight when its COLD af looking to meet someone... seriously! Now I am not making this statement Carter blanche but in general, near with me... So I was like, " I am going to direct approach DA all night" I did only once, because there was only one female that met my criteria... and I not only number closed but when I # close sometimes I will take a selfie with me and the female and text it to her in front of her. I tell her that I just want her to not forget me because of all the other guys that r getting her #. Obviously that's not the sole reason.. It's so that- 1. I know that's a REAL# 2. Sending her the text of us together anchors our interaction 3. I give her an open ended compliment about 'all the other guys' getting her digits and Mostly it will cause her to blush and build rapport

So afterwards she went back to her table because her and her friends where leaving... I sat there feeling good, I accomplished my goal (there where NO other potential females) then.......... I felt my phone buzz? It was her texting me saying that her and her friends where staying for 1 more drink!!!!😁 I looked up waved her over and continued... Super great interaction, made plans for the weekend, lots of Kino... So my 1st attempt at DA on a horrible weather night was a complete success!!! She was a 8 - 9ish, out with her friend and another guy ( her friends brother)