You have to have a "seductive male aura". From attempting to put myself in both shoes, I have come up with an initial conclusion or probable proposition. That is, a guy has to demonstrate the following qualities simultaneously,

1) Don't have a salty, offensive or offended attitude.

2) Act like you don't give a fuck about anyone around you.

3) Don't act like you're in a rush; In fact, act like you're clearly not in a rush but despite that, you still don't have the tine of day to give to them.

4) (Following on from the previous one) However, when approached by them in a rational situation, treat them rationally. But don't put in any more effort than necessary.

5) Have you're own unique dominating lifestyle. This is just something we ohtain naturally. It is not something forced or learned. This could relate to your hobbies and special interests. The key factor is uniqueness and one-offness. Something that separates you from the rest. You don't necessarily have to be above other people, just be different and more unique.

*Combined, these will give off an attractive and incredibly alluring aura. Remember though, you have to dominate and strive in your life with total disregard for the outcome. We are chasing assets, not rewards.

Also, remember that it is 'okay' to be a bit quiet or reserved. It's okay to be flawed. For our flaws and fragility can also be heavily seductive.