My crush often talks to me, but I'm so fucking awkward.

2017-11-26T22:10:04+00:00

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recyclablebanthas · 2017-11-27T04:09:36+00:00

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Yep. She probably just wants to friendzone me, but I can't really stop it, don't know what to say, she is the only girl I can't talk to.

First off, girls don't go around thinking, "I'm going to friend-zone this guy." They are concerned with how someone fits into their lives, just like any other person. They interact and feel whether they're attracted or not.

Secondly, it's your mind that's doing this to you, so she's not the only girl that you're going to feel this way around, unless you address this internal issue.

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The issue is that this brain of yours is working against you. The fight is inside your brain. Firstly, you're allowing your brain to ponder this girl too much and imagine too much, if you're getting this anxious about it. There's no reason she should have this amount of importance to you at ALL. You don't really know her!

Hint: You won't know her hardly at all unless you dated her for a few weeks or months.

You probably have two narratives running through your head.

A negative one. A voice that looks for the most negative interpretation of the data available.
A positive one. A hopeful voice that wants to believe in something better.

The problem is, neither one of these voices is precisely "true." So it takes some work for you to establish a courtroom in your head that weighs the evidence so you're not fucking yourself constantly by only believing one voice all the time.

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Masturbation or not, won't solve the internal issues we're talking about here.

And not only that, but if you start screwing around with hormones by abstaining from whatever your masturbatory habits are, that will add a hormonal mess to the mix. As long as you aren't excessive with it, normal masturbation is fine.

Title	My crush often talks to me, but I'm so fucking awkward.
Author	madralux
Upvotes	7
Comments	3
Date	November 26, 2017 10:04 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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