Hi, just curious what the view is here if you went from being in very close proximity to LTR (living together) to long distance. Living together was a bad idea (we were long distance to start with and she moved over). There is still a chance I may move to her city (not for her but for work, my family is there etc)

So while I know general advice is LD doesn’t really work, consider break up etc it seems like this is mainly an issue of not sexing anyone else is remaining “faithful” while she may be boning Chads.

So I’m curious, what are the issues to keep a relationship “open” long distance, and sleeping with other women? I guess the main risks are getting caught and the continued time and emotional investments? Could this strategy make sense or is it completely anti red pill?