The less attractive friend said for me to come out?

recyclablebanthas · 2020-08-09T01:49:43+00:00

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Alright so a few months ago I matched with this girl on tinder. We met a couple times and we just fooled around in the dark, no big deal. .....recently she wanted me to start coming over more.

She doesn’t want anything serious and was clear about it. She’s just not very attractive.

If you're not interested in her, than don't go over there for sex, etc.

Friend zone her. And then if you're interested in her friends, you need to get a feel for how she'd feel about you hooking up with any of them. You get a feel by paying attention to things she says to them regarding you and how she acts and talks towards you regarding them.

She'll make it clear through actions and words if she wouldn't be comfortable with you moving in on them.

Or else her friends will make it clear by not allowing it either.

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She just invited me out, I’m new to this town and I don’t know any people at all

So go out! Nothing wrong with it. Just be clear that you guys are friends!

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I’m nervous to go out with them and be the oddball.

Why would you be an oddball? Are you kidding? Being the only guy in a group of girls is a great position to be in.

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I don’t have to go at all, she said I could still come over after....

You need to be clear that you're just friends. Like no sexual component.

You've said you're not interested really. And you would like a shot at her friends.

So you need to have some restraint, kindly make sure it's clear that you're only friends, and then that might be possible.

Title	The less attractive friend said for me to come out?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	1
Date	August 8, 2020 9:44 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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