TL;DR: 19, virgin, serving with no women in the army, home for a weekend once every week or two, friends aren't into clubs and parties so I might have to go alone to a city that has these things. I want a relationship but I think with the little free time I have it's unlikely. I also wanna try some one night stands.

Important background: I'm home for two and a half days (Thursday evening, Friday and Saturday) every week or two. Which makes me think I might not be able to date/get to know someone because of the time gaps. There are no girls serving with me.

I'm a virgin. Never had a girlfriend and never even kissed a girl. I've had opportunities of girls who hit on me and I was too dumbfounded to realize. I've asked out a few girls and most of them didn't say yes. I was actually only into one, the rest I considered as kind of practice. I was really into her, she's awesome.

I want a relationship but I feel like for the next three years, it's highly unlikely I'll be able to start one. I also wanna try some meaningless sex, but my friends are not into parties and stuff like that. The only city that even has clubs and dance bars is a 30 minute drive away. And there is no public transportation at night. I could go alone, party until 4 AM, and then try winging it - I usually find some ride home.

My appearance - I'm not particularly good looking but I'm definitely not ugly.

Is it weird if I go alone?

Is it a thing to hit it off with someone in a club and then go back to her apartment?

With that information about me, what would you recommend me to do? Please be as detailed as possible.

Thank you guys.