I've got into 'game' fairly recently after reading a few books and watching vids etc and i've had a good start and managed to sleep with a few decent looking girls.

But I find myself wondering whether it was actually anything 'good' that I did on the occasions that I managed to get her, or whether it was more a case of luck/her simply happening to find me physically attractive.

Kind of like whatever I said and without having any 'game', I still could have pulled her.

Last night I failed to get anyone, but i'm not beating myself up as i'm much 'braver' at approaching now and so on nights where i approach a lot, I kind of consider it a success either way.

But a few times last night, I really got the feeling that no matter WHAT I said, I was never gonna get her. Like you could put the best pick up artist in my head, choosing my words for me etc, and it still wouldn't have happened. One of the girls I just sat down next to her, smiled, and said ''Hey! I thought you were cute. Wanted to come and say hi'' but straight from the off she seemed really 'cold'/disinterested. It actually got a bit awkward and she was looking around like she wanted to be saved by someone!

But I used the same kind of approach and general vibe on a girl in a bar the week before and she was back at my house within an hour!

Sort of like it's hard to 'learn' from my successes or even my failures!

I also think I came on too strong with another girl on the dance floor, but I blame some of the RSD videos for that! lol. They often seem to just grab girls and start kissing them/man handling them in their vids, but that certainly didn't work for me last night! :)

Reading this post back, I can see it looks kind of nebulous but I just wanted to see if anyone can kind of relate at all. Maybe it's a typical thought that 'newbies' tend to have.