Girls don't even look at me because I'm short.

SirKolbath · 2018-08-10T22:54:45+00:00

Have to say that I ain't buying this, son. I'm literally three inches shorter than you and I deleted Tinder because I got laid six times on eight dates with nine different women and I wasn't getting anything done. It was a distraction.

From the general tone of your post it is not the height that is the issue, it's the fact that you are measuring your life success by how many women flutter their eyelashes at you. Stop that shit, dude. Women are interchangeable conveniences. You don't work out for them. You work out for you. You don't dress nicely for them. You dress nicely for you. You don't get a job making $6k/month for any woman, you make that money for you.

Women will come. But they won't come until you stop the pity party and improve yourself enough to attract them. I'm almost 45, blonde, but balding. Pale skin. I'm no one's underwear model. And I don't fucking care! I'm quick witted and funny.

That Tinder date didn't bail because you were short. She bailed because your frame is wrapped up in your height. My frame is wrapped up in how well I can make myself laugh. Sometimes that makes other people laugh, too, and I'm fine with that, but their entertainment is not a requirement of the evolution.

Is it going to be easy? Of course not. But people don't climb Mount goddamn Everest because it's easy. They climb it specifically because it's hard.

You cancel that gym membership and I'll reach through the interwebs and cockslap you. Use this. Get pissed about it. Go move something heavy and then stop worrying about it because no one really cares about it but you.

vandaalen · 2018-08-10T22:38:54+00:00

I'm not a body builder or a model, but I definitely separate myself from the usual randos.

What in "get fucking huge" did you not understand?

Losingsteamfast · 2018-08-10T23:19:20+00:00

Life isnt fair. You're playing with a disadvantage and you just have to get that much better and fight that much harder. Being in decent shape and kind of working on your game isnt going to net you good results.

Kevin hart, bruno Mars, kanye west, tom cruise, zach effron, Robert Downey jr, usher are all 5'8 or shorter and they're all drowning in it.

Get in better shape and get more reps talking to girls. You're going to continue to fail and some will shrug you off and say mean shit. But each time you get a little stronger and a little better.

Shadow_Of_ · 2018-08-10T23:45:11+00:00

You're screwed

CocaineOnYourClit · 2018-08-10T22:41:57+00:00

u/SirKolbath

Qazreddit99 · 2018-08-10T22:48:18+00:00

It happens but it's very difficult. Height for a man is like youth for a woman. Jennifer Aniston aged well and is good to look at. So has Cindy Crawford. Tom Cruise is just under 5'7" and smoking hot. I think Zac Eeffron is 5'8" and women fawn over him. But most women even at 30 don't look as good as Jennifer Aniston does, like how even at 5'10" most men aren't as handsome as Tom Cruise.

That being said, even these stars have TONS of women who complain that, upon finding out their height, feel betrayed by "God" that a man that handsome could be so short. This ruins that man for them.

It's a horrible reality but below 5'8" means that you are invisible to a large portion of women. Looks are integral to SMV and height is exrememly important. It IS still possible to do well with chicks, just don't ever expect to consistently get 9's-10's if you're only a 6-7.

russian-jewboi · 2018-08-10T23:05:42+00:00

To add on to what everybody else is saying, go look up Jeff Nippard.

Title	Girls don't even look at me because I'm short.
Author	f0ster91
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Comments	16
Date	August 10, 2018 10:35 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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