Why am I only attracted to girls who are unavailable?

mrmagnumface · 2015-01-25T01:03:55+00:00

It sounds like you're just a regular 19 year old guy. Don't sweat the small stuff so much. You're a guy probably still going through puberty so you're horny as fuck. what I mean is when you mentioned you've had girlfriends for a few months and then you lose attraction. What it sounds like to me is that you're really just attracted to these girls sexually and once you start hanging out with them you realize that they aren't as great as you thought they were so you lose attraction. Its a good thing though, that is what helps you tell if you actually care about a girl. You'll learn as you go through life that deeper attraction comes from being attracted to what comes out of the other persons mouth and what is between their ears. Physical attraction is obviously still a thing, however, real relationships are built off of chemistry not sex. That being said, sex is much much better when you have that special chemistry as well. You can have a different girl every day of the week and it still doesn't come close to the one girl you truly connect with.

Title	Why am I only attracted to girls who are unavailable?
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Date	January 25, 2015 12:09 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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