I'm talking to this girl at a bar and she's kinda cute. Not my type but my friends seemed into her. So we exchange numbers but she tells me she has a boyfriend.

Whatever right? Went off to my friends.

Four days later she texts me. I ask her out to the bars, we drink. We talk a lot. I remember bringing up topics she likes,nodding a lot, and giving her the "I'm very interested in what you are saying right now" look. We dance a little. Just playing it cool, making sure she has a good time.

I ask her if she want to smoke at my place. We don't smoke but we had sex.

So yeah seddit: just play it cool and make sure she has a good time.