So I go to a rather large community college with a lot of girls. I've been trying to have an "official daygame session" where I set goals for myself everyday before I leave my house and try to apply this knowledge... But I've been pussying out of reaching my daily goals for almost two months now. I walk around for an extra 1-2 hours around my campus, WANTING TO APPROACH, but instead I let dozens and dozens and dozens of cute girls walk right past me every day...
But today, I just said to myself...
Fuck this and fuck you. You want this... It doesn't have to be perfect. JUST FUCKING START
And so I did.
GOAL: OPEN 5 GIRLS
So I got out of class at 12 PM and I walk out with this really cute girl that sits next to me. For the record, this girl knows me already... I've been flirting and hitting on this girl since I first met her a month ago in class but I've been to scared to ask her out. And today during class, I was planning out "my steps" (smh) to how I was perfectly going to ask her out... But it never happened. She left in a rush right after we got out.
The first three girls I opened, they were indirect (asked for directions), were very short sets and they had no clue on what I really intended. But I opened, which was my goal, and most importantly I started building momentum for my last two sets.
The next girl was sitting down. I opened and I did the same thing. I asked for directions, pretended I didn't know what she talking about so I could stay in this set a bit longer... But this time I did something different. I added on, "I'm meeting my friend there but I'm not sure if that's the right one" There were multiple ones on campus so she suggested I should call my friend and ask before I leave. Which I "did" and made up that he would come find me instead, which gave me an excuse to stay and talk to her for a bit while he "finds me".
So I talk to her for a bit. Casual small talk. Nothing that sexual or personal. I wanted to number-close her before I left but I had a feeling she had a boyfriend and didn't want to get rejected so I started screening her for one, which she did. So I just said "nice meeting you" and was off to the next.
The last girl was sitting on a bench. But I wanted to do at least one direct approach before I left. I knew I could but I was still a bit afraid. But I had enough momentum so I just went with it. I opened her. Told her, "You looked too adorable not to say hi to" She was flattered and I just carried on the conversation from there. Talked with her for two hours. She had a boyfriend but I wanted to close her somehow cause she cool and I wanted the reference experience. So we got each other's instagram, talked to her until she had to leave and said bye.
I went home after this. But I felt fucking good, because I'm that much closer to becoming better at this.
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