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[–][deleted] 10 points11 points12 points 8 years ago* (13 children) | Copy Link
Look man, A lot of women are just not interesting to talk to, But at the same time it's not there job to be interesting when you first meet them, you are the one who opened them. The burden of the pick up is on you.
Are they really not interesting? or are you just not doing enough to compel them to express themselves?
% wise I find about 10% of the girls I talk to interesting. Even if they are not interesting, I can just pretend they are. You never want to appear bored of what a girl is talking about.
When you are first starting out you should have no standards looks wise (except fucking fat chicks, don't do that) to hone your skills.
I game 5,6 (average not ugly) sometimes because guess what, they probably have friends that are 7s in above they can introduce me to.
Or they might be a 5,6, but they can help me in other ways, if they have a certain skill set. Because most of the time its the average and ugly girls that actually have life skills and just knowledge/skills in general about a certain subject I'm interested in, and they can be useful to me in that way, other then providing me with a wet warm hole to fuck.
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I game 5,6 (average not ugly) sometimes because guess what, they probably have friends that are 7s in above they can introduce me to. Or they might be a 5,6, but they can help me in other ways, if they have a certain skill set. Because most of the time its the average and ugly girls that actually have life skills and just knowledge/skills in general about a certain subject I'm interested in, and they can be useful to me in that way, other then providing me with a wet warm hole to fuck.
I've always had a problem with this type of mentality. It feels too much like using someone. If it was indirectly, then sure, but you even stated and basically admitted that that's basically the reason why you date em, not "Oh, we didn't get along on a sexual level, but at least sometimes she can help me with "x" or she introduced me to a good friend / girl of mine.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
I'm the one that offers value first. It's not like a taker mindset. It's coming from a giver mindset.
If I meet someone that can help me, I find ways I can help them first, after I do that, then they owe me, and I can receive anything I want from them. Then it's just becomes a race who can help each other out the most. Its called making friends and this is just how it works on a technical level. Nothing manipulative about it.
It's the rule of reciprocation, an influence technique. Google it and read the book.
And I don't date. Fuck and then friendzone them.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's not a "Giver's" mindset if you stated earlier that the only reason you go for the 5's and 6's are because of the advantages that they will give you afterwards. It sounds a lot more like an "exchange" mindset, but even then that's not it. If by "giving" you mean your "fake attention" and friendzoning them/ making them fall for you, then that's not giving. You are just leading them into false misconceptions and making them believe that you actually like them.
Would you say a girl friendzoning a guy and then the guy doing things for her be considered "giving" from the girl's perspective?
See my point?
[–]Alex24d 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Do you fuck them and then hit on their friends, or get them into "friendzone" and then meet their friends?
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[–]Alex24d 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Sometimes I just don't feel any sexual vibe with a girl but she's into me and clearly expecting to make a move. If I don't it's pretty much over, and if I want to use her for meeting other girls I really need to escalate. What do?
Social circle game. Fuck the girl, then have her introduce you to all her friends over brunch, then fuck them.
Or just friend zone the original girl, keep her in the sex pipeline and have her introduce you to her friends.
The thing is, if you friend zone the girl first, you can always unfriendzone them and fuck.
it's much more simple then it sounds. Just make sure the original girl doesn't view you as boyfriend material, because then it won't work and they will want you all to themselves.
Download RSD lukes social circle blueprint. He goes in depth how to do this. Where I learned it from. It's network marketing pussy.
The thing is when a girl expects me to escalate and I don't in my mind she thinks I'm not confident enough and just loses interest. How do you overcome it?
By realizing being psychical with women is overrated. Instead what I do is just be very sexually suggestive verbally. If you want examples read my post history.
I'm very hands off with women, to the point they touch me and I tell them "keep your flithy whore hands off me" to get them to stop touching me and they just touch me more.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
1%
[–]bulldogwill 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Probably in the 5-10% range. Gotta be in shape for one. If they're mentally vacuous that rules them out. Gotta be in the 7+ range. On top of that I'm not into girls who are right wing either. Really narrows it down quick.
[–]Alleycat0 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Probably around 5%, iam seriously interested in.
Incredibly low considering all things. Obesity rate, age, height, ethnicity, location and other shallow things.
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