This is a pretty weird problem but lets start out by saying I'm a 20 year old guy. Now my problem is for lack of a better word I feel like a little kid when it comes to girls. Ive never really flirted, Ive never been on a date, been kissed, ect. I'm at college and I'm watching time slip by, I'm surrounded by VERY good looking girls, and While I have a problem with approching them If I can get a conversation started then I'm good. I don't know what exactly started this problem, maybe it was my parents saying "kids your age are to young to date" back when I was in teh 5th grade and liked girls. Maybe it was that I never brought dating up with them. I got to college and lost some weight (100+ pounds) and I got some confidence. But when talking to a girl a lot of the time mentally I'm like "she is young", when I'm talking to someone my age or even a year or 2 older. On the inside I still feel like the loner fat kid I was in highschool. Now I'm actually attractive, I notice girls noticing me.

I have no idea how to plunge through this because most of the time ill look back and see a missed chance, not because of anything she or I did wrong, but because I realized That I still feel like a kid when It comes to dating. This is really the only part of my life this is an issue in, I still live with my parents but for a while I didn't, I worked a job where I supervised people. I like being dependant, its not like I view myself as a kid ANYWHERE ELSE but dating.