So... I'm a good looking guy, athletic, funny, and intelligent. I love to walk the line between confident and cocky. My problem(s)? Well, there are a couple different things I would like to touch upon.

If there's a sidebar answer for any of these, I apologize- I'm on a crappy phone now writing this while it's on my mind.

  1. I'm an asshole. Like for real. I don't want to be anymore, but I am one. How do you stop being an asshole. I know some of y'all are assholes gone a different route.

  2. I have trouble finding one night stands. Maybe I'm just not taking shots? I mean, I have slept with plenty of women and have had one night stands, but I seem to get the girls that want to sleep with me but after a couple of hangout sessions to make sure I'm not going to screw them over, then they get clingy.

  3. I love being in the limelight. I mean, I am a pretty interesting person so I am use to it, but I sometimes come off as trying too hard.

  4. (This is my biggest area of concern- if anything help me with this one!!!) I'm not smooth. I'm aggressive- and it works, but I don't want to be that guy anymore. I want to be smooth/suave while not taking away from my personality of fun loving/goofy

If you have any tips or anything I should read up on- that be great!