I've been called spontaneous many times over the years. I have also been beta for most of my life. I understand that this label should be interpreted via context/situation, but I am very spontaneous in many many situations/conversations. Currently, these labels do not really affect me (too much) as I pride myself in doing whatever I feel like, but I fear there is a point where this mindset may lead one into developing habits that facilitate social retardation. Input appreciated.