I believe you do.
Think Russell Brand. He's a high-energy person. I'm talking about guys that are the Center of attention, that are the life of the party. They could be sometimes be labelled as obnoxious, talkative, and have no filter. They are the center of attention and give off really strong positive vibes. They offer value and fun.
On the other hand, there are the low energy guys. Think Hank Moody from californication, or James Bond. They, too, have strong inner game, but the way they express it is completely different. Conversations with them would involve more deep meaningful conversations. They're more subdued, but also conveys that deeper intelligence through their bantering skills. They keep a low-profile, but you can bet that their presence is felt by others. They have and keep their shit together, and to others, they are people that take themselves and their goals very seriously.
I relate more to a low-energy alpha. I don't talk much, but people give me their utmost respect. I believe my inner game is not bad, something I am quite proud of but obviously am still working towards. To others, I give off that I-dont-give-a-shit vibe. My guy friends think that although I don't talk much, and that although I'm not sociable, I have no problem talking to a hot girl and asking her out -- and this is true, as I have this mindset of "I go after what I want, when I want".
But I'm in college. And I don't think this is working in my favor. Sure, this is who I am, but specifically -- this is only ONE side of me. I have a high-energy side. I can be sociable when I feel like it (I see someone interesting, I am in a social event where people don't know each other). I want to be able to turn this on at will. And I think that this high-energy side is a better advantage at attracting girls -- hooking girls -- in the college setting. I mean, simply imagine a low-energy guy at a party... it just doesn't seem to work as well.
What do you think.
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