So recently I got into a relationship and it's going good.
However, being a uni kid, we have a project where we need to survey different people.
So me and a guy hit the street and went to the place where there's a mixed crowd. Locals And foreigners both.
I decided to take this as an opportunity to talk to as many girls as possible. I targeted between 7-9 to fill the survey's. That
The first, it was uncomfortable. I sounded nervous, spoke fast and rushed and had anxiety in general.
As time went by I felt more comfortable as time passed. Ofc some ignored me, some didn't even talk much. But soon I started getting survey's done.
While having a survey filled, I took the opportunity to speak to People from different ethnicity. It felt good.
I asked out 2 using the survey as a medium to start a conversation. A local girl rejected me but this russian chick apparently took interest and started chatting. I ended up taking her number and planning a coffee date. Ofc I'm not sure if I'm gonna be able to meet her but I realised it's not difficult at all and it's rather simple if you're comfortable.
ITS NOT WHAT YOU SAY ITS HOW YOU SAY. WE ENDED UP TALKING A LOT ABOUT INDIA AND RUSSIA.
SO WHAT DO YOU TAKE FROM THIS ? - ITS EASY IF YOU'RE COMFORTABLE - THE ONLY WAY TO GET BETTER IS TO KEEP DOING IT AGAIN AND AGAIN. ITS BETTER TO BE REJECTED THAN HAVE THE GUILT OF NOT DOING IT - SHES A HUMAN. JUST LIKE YOU. DON'T PUT HER ON A PEDESTAL. SHE'S ENTERING YOUR WORLD AND NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND. - ENJOY. IF YOU DON'T ENJOY, WHAT'S THE POINT.
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