I haven't been journaling all of my daygame sets for about a week now, this is because I naturally intergrate the daygame practice into my everyday life. When I see someone I like I just approach and talk to them, and yes there are times when I feel anxiety, but the reality is if I don't talk to her she will be gone forever. My daygame practice days are now Tuesday, Thursday and most likey Saturday, keeping it real simple. Tomorrow there should be a journal, and maybe some audio if I can figure out how to record it.

I've been getting dates here and there, got one last week, and also another one over the weekend. Two cute girls, one from Colombia, really adorable but a bit closed up, and than the other, petite Mexican girl with a bit of a wild personality (we ended up making out). I met these two on the street while doing daygame one day, and while going to meet one for a date another day. I learnt over many years of doing Tinder game and also from past daygame reference that texting has to be kept to a minimum. You meet her, text her "it was random, but interesting meeting you" and add something that is related to what you both talked about, can be flirty but doesn't have to be. These girls were into me so they didn't flake, and texted back. I think I did too much texting with the Colombian one because I was really into her, but eventually she agreed on meeting me. I could have just kept on texting her over and over again and she would have probably assumed that I am really desperate and never showed. This is where patience comes in...

Your patience is one quality which you really have to be aware of, and always keep in check. If you become impatient, you will send needy texts, and portray yourself as a "needy guy", and you don't want to do that. Girls have a bunch of guys who text them constantly, over and over again, until the girl is just like "fuck this guy" and blocks him, or just never responds. Not a lot of men approach women during the day time, but girls still have guys from Tinder, and that drunk guy from the bar, so you need to separate yourself from these fools. And if you're constantly bombarding her phone with "hey! are you free today?", "hey, let me take you out for coffee", she will get annoyed. Text her once, if she doesn't respond just be patient, send her something cheeky and relatable, but never give in to the urge of thinking that she won't respond, just give her time, she might just be "testing" you. So what if she doesn't respond? Well one is that she might not be into you, and second, she might had seen the message but just forgot about it. This is where you would send another fun/ cheeky message, something like "OMG! have you been taken? I must call Liam Neeson ;)". Could be similar to this, just a fun little little text to get her attention, but nothing to absurd. And than go from there, if she responds. If she doesn't, just let her go.

Being a patient person is really important because it teaches you how not to react when your thoughts and emotions are controlling your actions. You need to chill out and just observe how you feel, and look from a third-person's perspective. Meditation helps to develop a calm and patient mind, I'd recommend daily practice of about twenty minutes. You will learn all of this as you duelve deeper into seduction, girls will not text you back, you will get angry and think you did something wrong. Just keep on getting those numbers, that is the best way to become aware of this aspect of patience. Good luck!

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