After you meet a christian chick, she tells you she has a BF in a different state, and you tell her she's attractive and you'd rather not meet up if it makes things weird, and she wants to meet up any way..

killzone20 · 2017-06-30T05:24:32+00:00

sounds like either she just wants to be friends or wants to cheat on her boyfriend

Don't help her cheat on her boyfriend

MakeWise · 2017-06-30T11:53:59+00:00

She just wants a friend man, take what she said at face value.

This is actually an excellent opportunity to deploy healthy personal boundaries man. Tell her that you don't think it'll work for you. If she was being coy, then she'll be forced to be honest. If not, then you were honest about who you are and what you want. That's actually more important than getting laid.

Edit: re-read your post and saw that you had told her you were attracted

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