Ex messaging me after 7 days of dumping me?

KeffirLime · 2018-08-26T08:41:56+00:00

Absolutely not.

When a woman dumps a man it's because she has either:

found a better option or you're an obstacle to her finding better option.

If it's the latter she'll gladly keep you around as an orbiter, a safety net, for validation.

Basically what she's saying is I want to go out and look for other cock, but if that doesn't work out please be waiting to take me back if that doesn't work out

Do not tolerate this. She already doesn't respect you, imagine if you accept being her emotional tampon friend while she gets railed by other dudes.

Next her, no contact, you owe her nothing.

redhawkes · 2018-08-26T08:45:38+00:00

You should have blocked/deleted her right away after the breakup. Ghost.

She dumped you, have some self respect dude.

Is it worth getting back with this girl and is she just fishing for validation or not? How should I play this if I want her to obsessed with me?

It an ex for a reason. Don't root thru the garbage.

Enter her frame and see how you get flushed down the toilet after she gets validated.

btrpb · 2018-08-26T10:39:34+00:00

Dude that was a good interaction. Leave that shit in your rear view mirror.

[deleted] · 2018-08-26T08:42:23+00:00

You know what you should do. Hard next and under no circumstances contact her. She wants you as a beta orbiter and even replying gives her validation. Talk to other plates or get some.

TehGinger26 · 2018-08-26T10:35:36+00:00

Delete and block her in all ways possible....and start moving on with your life.

earthmother92 · 2018-08-26T20:09:41+00:00

Never!

Block her for good!

civilizedfrog · 2018-08-26T20:10:48+00:00

Why are wasting your time on a girl who says she doesn't love you?

Also having a party 7 days after being dumped must have messed up her hamster.

[deleted] · 2018-08-27T02:24:48+00:00

All women come back around, just don't go back it never ends well

volvostupidshit · 2018-10-09T08:46:44+00:00

Any update on this man? I am quite interested on your sitch.

TheLastMgtow · 2018-10-11T09:46:26+00:00

Well done dont reply to that major shit test of the heart. I dont know how you dealt with that but it tickled my balls.

Listen. Dont let this girl come to your party and assume her dominance over you. Even if she goes there and you fuck her, its a victory for her.

Make sure she doesnt go. Because if she does. You might also have to deal with her trying to get attention from other guys in your party just to fuck with you. And that will also humiliate you. Tell her that there won't be any party, tell her that you have a new girlfriend and she will be there, BUT, "she actually wants to meet you", that will be enough to keep her to nervous from even annoying you to go to the party. Dont show any fear about she going to the party, tell her there will be some other party or whatever where you can meet. Use reverse psychology. You could even be the one asking her to come to the party, like a lot, and saying that your new girl is there ]:), and she wants to meet her, that way she won't go for sure lmao.

If she gets to go to the party you lost a major shit test. And it means she can dump you, cheat on you, and still get you for whatever, as a beta friend, she is even get to go to your own party at your own place.

And lastly, go mgtow boys, strenght and honor.

TheLastMgtow · 2018-10-11T09:52:53+00:00

Wow i only noticed now this was a month ago. How did it go?

fashfront · 2018-08-26T14:41:14+00:00

A BIG mistake a lot of people on asktrp make is completely closing the door on ex LTRs. I CANNOT stress enough, the goal after a breakup should be to plate your ex. Keep her as a booty call

Be friendly and respond, but don't invite her to any parties or social gatherings, just tell her to come over when you feel like parking your dick in her

Title	Ex messaging me after 7 days of dumping me?
Author	iamzeuss
Upvotes	1
Comments	23
Date	August 26, 2018 8:36 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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