So I was talking with a female friend of mine who i hadn’t seen in awhile that used to always act weird around me. When I brought up the subject she mentioned that she thought I was the one who didn’t like her because I’d never hit on her or shown interest. My game was pretty weak at the time and i think i wrongly just assumed she didn’t find me attractive or otherwise she would’ve hit on me.

It was kinda like a “lightbulb” moment for me. The chick who said this to me is like a 6/10 so I never really was that interested, but I would always secretly wonder why some less attractive girls (5-6/10s) would seem standoffish and not show much interest while more attractive girls for the most part seem much more interested when I talk to them or flirt than average girls.

Has anyone else noticed this or can explain why this is?