I've gone out with a girl a few times, and took her back to my apartment the other night. She instituted a couple ASD moves throughout the process, e.g., "I didn't expect to spend the night with you" when we got there, "just so you know, I don't want to have sex with you tonight" a few minutes in, pushing my hand away when I tried to escalate things, etc. She was more accepting after I stepped down the kino ladder and progressed more later, but finally put a firm stop to it when I asked if I should go get a condom, that "I don't want to do anything I would regret, we need to stop."

I figured the proper response, since there wasn't much of an opening to restart at that point, was to respect her decision but provide her with no more affection. After about a minute, I rolled over to my side of the bed, faced away from her, and went to sleep. I figured the seddit play was she didn't "earn" more affection, so I shouldn't provide it. Did I play it right?