I'm going to try and make this as short as possible but for those that aren't interested in reading a field report over four days, just skip to the bottom. My questions aren't entirely connected to my four days I'm posting about.

So on the first day, I had two ladies come over my place. I had this worked up to be a threesome in my head. Two incredibly horny girls coming over my place, one that's already attracted to me... golden, right? Well firstly, the conversations one of them had was really fast paced. Too fast paced for me, even. The other girl really didn't contribute very much and it left a ton of room for me to drop in some sexuality. Unfortunately I couldn't do just that. I couldn't press the barrier. And so, early on, I lost a ton of opportunity and I let this one lady dominate the conversations. Later, I brought up some sex discussion topics(how do mermaids fuck? etc.) but they didn't really go anywhere because I was just bringing up topics and not pressing the girls with sex. I cooked them food and they left. No threesome and I had trouble getting to sleep.

Thankfully the next morning I woke up happy. I chilled with some friends throughout the day, #closed a girl who wants a piece of me, and got a handjob(not fully) in the park with another girl. I took her back to my place later and we got in bed.

The third day was a big eye opener for me. I got high with a bunch of friends and I noticed how needy I came off as. Almost all my sentences finished with "eh?" and "you know what I mean?" and it really did show how much I was looking for other's approval. I was high though and it was still fun.

I went to chill with some friends the next day and I met some cool guys over another friend's place later on. I didn't feel any approach anxiety at all but I didn't feel like fully approaching either. I did do a bit of talking though and I felt good about myself. I played a lot of video games at the friend's(alone sometimes) but I was completely happy with it while others were doing their own thing. Something I noticed though was that a friend commented on me being anti-social even though I was just enjoying myself, sometimes alone. I surely didn't feel anti-social in any way but I came off that way. On the way home that night, I jerked off on the back of a bus just for kicks and it felt amazing.

Anyways, after my four day long FR, I have some questions for /r/Seduction.

  • How does one stop being as needy?

  • I need to improve on being less reliant on following routines word-for-word and my sex talk. Any ideas where I can start with this?

EDIT: Why am I being downvoted?