There's this guy I'm interested in and I want to be able to express my interest more but I feel clueless when it comes to flirting. I feel like I never really 'learned to flirt', and that is perhaps because I don't have much of a history when it comes to guys.

I'm not the girliest girl so sometimes I feel kind of self conscious when I'm interested in someone because I feel like guys aren't attracted to girls like me. I'm not fat, not ugly, just not the girliest girl in terms of fashion as well as my personality. I don't know if that's really how I should be feeling about myself but it's something that always comes up when I think about guys and it gets me down.

Another thing that seems to drag me down in my romantic attempts is that I don't have much experience hooking up-wise. I'm not a virgin but I've only been with one guy (more of a FWB kind of relationship) but that ended over a year ago and I haven't really done much with anyone since. It really makes me feel inexperienced and self-conscious and for some reason I feel like it's obvious to guys and unattractive.

Does anybody else struggle with these feelings and issues? I just need some advice as I'm feeling lost and lonely.