Been lurking here for a while and posting my first FR. I been using okcupid for getting dates and trying to learn what works best. Only problem I been having with that is it's difficult to get a second date. One problem I think is because all the girls I aim for are around HB9-HB10 and have tons of guys after them.

Anyway onto the date last night. She was definitely an HB9 and we met up at this lounge/bar near my place. I been on around 13 or more dates from okcupid for the past two and a half months so I don't get nervous anymore. I started teasing and negging her right when she walked in, but only because I already built a lot of comfort with her through chat(chatted with her 3 times on okc before she was willing to give out her number) and text. For this date, I maintained the playful cocky frame while in the lounge and making sure I was kinoing her throughout the whole time. I basically told her lets skip the boring chit chat and skip right to talking about dating/relationships. After we were done with our drinks, she said she was hungry, so I told her lets go to my place and we'll order pizza and watch a movie. At first she looked hesitant and had to think for a second or two, but complied. We got to my place and I continue my playful negging. We then watched the movie while cuddling and she didn't mind where I touched her. I had my hands on her ass and slapped it playfully when i negged her. However, everytime I tried to kiss her, she would keep leaning back giggling and tell me in a very cute playful voice "NO" (I have no clue how to deal with that. I know she wants to but kept resisting and I tried several times. Anyone got any advice for that?). So I kept chatting with her and building more comfort, then tried again and we kissed for about 5 sec with tongue, but not a full makeout. Afterwards, it was late and she had to go. I find it hard to escalate to sex when she keep resisting kiss it seems all these really hot girls from okc will not have sex on first date. What should I have done better? I texted her today to come shopping with me since I needed to get something, but she denied. However, she texted me later asking if I found what I wanted to get so I think she's still interested. What should I do next to get her to come out again?

TL;DR first date with girl, got her to my place to watch a movie/cuddle and tongue kissed before she left. Date lasted from 6:30 to 12:30