Well honestly, i've been denied a lot (no girl has actually ever said yes..) but last night i was at a football game generally by myself the whole night (being a little pussy feeling bad for myself because none of my friends were there etc). So I get bored and go sit around the back of the school and just sit there by myself looking at stars and listening to music and this group of girls and some people come around and start playing in the field in front of me. After like 10 minutes they come and sit with me and we start talking but i was being an idiot and wasnt doing anything besides answering some yes/no questions. I get some girls names and the one sitting across from me is actually really cute so i start talking to her a bit more. Sadly after about 10 minutes I had to go but I added her on FB and started talking to her.

So seddit, can you tell me if I did this correctly (tell me what i did wrong too) and what I should do next?

FB chat

Me: hey you're the mary from the football game right? mary: Yes? Maybe lol

me: yea just making sure i didnt add some random mary

this is probably gona sound...weird...but I though you were like real pretty so you maybe wanna go see a movie or somethign if your not busy this weekend?

mary: I would def love to but I'm sooooo busy this weekend I have work :( maybe next weekend or somethin tho

Me: oh alright. well next friday i may go to [local haunted hay ride stuff] so you could come if you want. and saturday im going to this party at [local like "club" place] but you could come too

mary: I'll see what's up

me:ok cool, can i grab your cell #?

I realize its looking pretty good, but I just remember all the other time girls have said stuff like this and ended up flaking out or just not doing anything. So seddit could you maybe help me out and give me some pointers/reassure me that shits gonna go fine?

update: she got her phone taken away but she asked for my # so I gave it.