So there's this girl at my gym who, about one year ago, talked with me online via FB for a few months while she was living abroad. HB10 (no exaggeration). Attraction was there, but I was too damn BP to handle it. Ended up being very cringey and engaged "The Talk" with her. She, of course, soft nexts me and I left on read. A few months later I end up in an LTR that lasted for almost a year. A few fights later and I'm single again right around the time the girl in question becomes single again. Up until this point I had only seen her fleetingly at the gym, and when we met eyes, it was clearly awkward and uncomfortable. She recently job got a job there as well as a personal trainer so I started to see her more and more. After a year of shredding and making gains and feeling more powerful than ever I thought to myself: now that I have finally opened my eyes to the way the world really is and digested the pill, "What's the worst that could happen?" and decided to speak to her after a year of no contact whatsoever. The interaction went well, passed a few shit tests, made her laugh, ended conversation before it became too dry; overall pleased with my progress. The very next day as I pulled up to the gym I got her number in the parking lot, which again I ended the conversation to make it seem like I was unavailable/like I had other things to do. Texted her a few times, but not too much. Things were going well until the other day...I was supposed to ask her out but, the logistics were really bad. I hardly got a sentence or two in before she had to attend to work matters. I tried to hit her up the night of to get another convo going and see if she would be interested in going out. However, she did not respond to me. It has been two (going on three days) and I feel like I need to keep the attraction going. How can I accomplish this without looking like I'm chasing her? (Disclaimer: I'm not oneitis over her, have another chick flying in from another state who's DTF already so, please don't waste a comment saying I'm BP or whatever.) Should I wait until I see her in person again to make a move? Or should I text her/snap her and try to start a conversation/set up lunch/dinner plans? Thanks in advance.
TL;DR: HB 9.5-10 interested in me again after SMV goes up + 1 year no contact. Got her number and now I'm stuck. Help!
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