Seduction with a language barrier? How do you work with this kind of issue? What changes do you make to your game?

Proxify · 2011-11-27T07:10:39+00:00

I've done this extensively, a couple of months ago I had this problem with German (I can speak it albeit not that fluently) in any case, what I did is use my broke German to get communication through then get her to "help me out" in a way that's playful and that worked wonders.

Other than that if you don't know the language (also happened to me) I relied on getting through with images (without appearing to be the entertainer).

Ultimately if the message isn't getting through, be polite, excuse yourself and just walk away, it can be really frustrating IMHO.

Yaaf · 2011-11-27T22:17:36+00:00

I'm going to Spain next year with my Spanish class. Any tips on Spanish women? I know that it is all pretty universal, but I'm sure that there are small things that some guys have noticed. I'm Swedish btw, so I'm thinking maybe I'll get away with being more dominant?

2011-11-28T09:33:24+00:00

I'm currently working on an African girl with an incredibly thick accent. I could understand well under 1/2 of what she said at first. Now I'm up to probably 80%. Went on two dates with her (rare for me, I almost never go on dates), one of them today, in addition to talking to her for about an hour when we met at a bar. My approach (it's yet to be vindicated, we've only made out so far):

1) Don't joke too much, especially anything that involves plays on words. They will not get it. Plays on words are unintelligible to any but a very good English speaker.

2) Listen very carefully. It will get easier with time.

3) Don't be afraid to ask her what she said. I'm sure she knows she has an accent.

4) Game her like anyone else, otherwise.

AnAdventureCore · 2011-11-26T17:34:35+00:00

Meh, I do ONS with women where language is a problem, so I can't help you with the texting problem.

I don't know how to help you... =(

Title	Seduction with a language barrier? How do you work with this kind of issue? What changes do you make to your game?
Author	int3rnetz
Upvotes	5
Comments	9
Date	November 26, 2011 5:04 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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