So I never go out to bars/clubs alone however my entire friend base are in relationships. So I know I am a pretty facey guy, I know I am attractive as I've been told by quite a few girls (and guys too but I just take it as a compliment), but I simply suck at bar/club game when I don't have anybody to wing with me. When I have a buddy to game with me we are so fucking money.

However, tonight is a good example of me being a bitch. I'm at a popular nightclub/bar place with my friends. They have their girls with them. I'm riding solo and trying to just make conversation with some of the tag along 6's that came with us. Just being a fun guy that I am. We go to dance. One of the 6/7's is so shy she won't break it down on the dance floor. I see a group of 4 HB9's that are dancing super slutty next to me. I attempt dancing with them but when I try to dance with one who wants to dance the others act all jealous and pull her away.

All is fine and dandy. I am having a good time because Avicii is on and that mofo' is my dude. As usual dancing at a good energy level, not too high that I look queer, but better than your average guy. Some of the gf's are trying to encourage me to dance with this girl named R (HB8). They are giving me the motion-nod. I acknowledge but they fucking Britanny Spears 1999 music comes on. I'm at a loss. I attempt being smooth for this song but the next song is some N'SYNC or some shit. Not happening to this song. So I just dance with the group. My buddy M is good friends with R and motions her to him. He told her to dance with me because I'm his bro. R has a thing for M but M has a gf and they are a good couple. R tells M that "she sorta knows me and is just being a 'mega cunt' as M put it."

I end up talking to a few more girls that I haven't seen in a while. One of which I had a thing for a few years ago and she has gotten super cute but was leaving so we may meet up later in the week.

I don't know if it is a lack of confidence or if I just feel more comfortable gaming with a reliable wing. It sucks because my coffee/dinner/lunch game one-on-one is tight, but when it is loud as hell my terrible hearing and lack of wing just doesn't work when girls are in groups of 3+

Advice?