So back out at a bar last night and me and my friend come across a pretty decent 2 set. We divide and conquer. It begins normal enough and then one of us asks "so what do you guys do". Immediately they begin to close down "we hate that question" blah blah blah
So changed tactics. Let me guess what you guys do. This is huge because it can give you extra mileage in a conversation. Just based off what I see, I just infer any random personal fact about her. If I'm right it's incredible. If I'm wrong it's still incredible because we're then taking about what i see in her and why (insert negs and demonstrating higher value here). It's all about positioning:
if i ask a question then I need her answer, lower value. If I give her an answer, then she has to qualify it, high value.
Also, I mentioned this in my 1st FR, but the sooner you make a personal connection the better your results. Honestly just be the guy that makes really stung personal statements, like "you're kind of afraid of families and babies aren't you?"
If she answers you're not only impressing her and standing out from the crowd but more importantly you are creating a really strong bond between you.
(#)close last night with plans to meet "as soon as possible"
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