The past 3 years have brought some of the most exciting moments of my young life; and its all because i learned how to play the game. Motivated by a long term relationship break up, I stumbled upon seduction, and recently this subreddit.

I've had the mentality if something doesn't go right, move on. If a girl is being unreasonable, needy, or something goes wrong-- "On to the next one!" And there is nothing wrong with that, it's a great way to live.

So in these 3 years, i've had sex with 19 girls and not had even the slightest loving feelings towards any of them, except this last one. She's fun to be around, she's entertaining, we're great together at sex, and we are so similar it was almost weird. Met her just like any other girl, easily got the Day 2, and Day 3, 4, 5 and so on. Sex on Day 2, and most nights that we hung out.

I have always kept my feelings away from girls so i don't get hung up on one, but I don't know what happened this time. We never had a dull moment, we were both upfront with each other, and very vocal about everything. I've seen it plenty of times before, and i don't know how i didn't see it this time, but we were moving too fast and hanging out too much, but it was almost addicting.

And after about 3 weeks of whatever we were (she told me she liked me a couple days prior and i reciprocated those feelings) she texted me and we both came upon the agreement we moved too fast, but she said "i've had a lot on my mind, i don't know what i want anymore, i've been weird about relationships and i hope things would have been different but i can't force myself too :( "

SO here's what i'm trying to ask: can you help me bridge this gap? or should i just say fuck it and on-to-the-next-one? Call me an over-thinker or inexperienced with relationships as of recent, but here's all i can think of. Don't say anything to her; RESULT: Nothing happens. OR I know girls like sweetness, but if I'm outright with how i feel it REALLLLLY comes off as beta. What should i do?

TL;DR: Always been "on-to-the-next-girl" and then i met a girl who actually have feelings for after a decently short time period. How do i let her know in an alpha type way?