I’m in a band, nominated for awards. I manage our Instagram, I look quite successful and high SMV on there.

I can see who “stalks” me on Instagram. This girl I want to bang visits my profile A LOT, in the top 3 women who stalk me on there. So, I was going to DM her and invite her to hang.

HOWEVER, she posted a pic of her + her boyfriend today with a ❤️ filled caption, so I got discouraged from contacting her.

What’s the right course of action? Does it matter that posted a pic with her BF? Why does she visit my IG profile so often?