Hello everyone, I could really use some advice!

So I've been dating this beautiful Brazilian woman for about 5 months now and while things were great, they've really fallen apart lately.

Backstory: I met this girl and treated her better than anyone else had ever had before, wanted to make her fall in love with me and it seemed to work. She has never seemed to value me based on her actions (other than spending a lot of time with me,) but she would tell me how much it meant to her.. etc. etc. She is a bit selfish, but would communicate regularly with me, wanted me to call and text her frequently, tell her I though she was beautiful and all those things.

The reason I come here is because while I understand and believe in abundance mentality, I really get along with her. I think she has a great personality and I "click" with her much better than pretty much all of the women I've dated (hundred+.)

I was seriously stuck on the "oneitis" principle and thought I could be the one to be the exception (trust me - I know better now.) Swallowing the Red Pill can be hard, especially as some of this material seems counter-intuitive, but I know this stuff works as I can see how I have experienced both the good and bad sides of these concepts. I am not foreign in knowing how to behave to keep women around and interested long-term, but in this case, I acted beta, communicated my feelings, made my desires known - and just generally messed up. I am open to walking away at this point, but I would like to keep her around if possible for the time being.

So 2-weeks ago, she told me she wanted more space and to slow our relationship down. Since then, she has barely contacted me and doesn't say affectionate things anymore. If I call, she will still see me and we still have good sex, she just doesn't want to hang out as often. I know the hypergamy is real, and I lowered my value with some of my past behavior. I do know how to act with her, as I generally do use TRP concepts effectively in my normal relationships, but like I said, I got oneitis and messed things up. I do want to keep her around if possible long-term, but I'm not sure what to do to bring her back into my orbit. How do I get her to regain interest like before? If she's not contacting me, how often do I contact her? or is she simply a plate and this can't be fixed?

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Any help will be much appreciated, thanks for listening!