I'm 33 and I notice that Asian Christian chicks are really hot and not taken. Partly because they're "waiting for the right guy" and stay untaken yet hot for a long time. (I'm atheist/Buddhist)

Anyone have any stories or tips for "breaking the hymen" so to speak?

Of course, I am referring to Christians like my hot Korean ex-officemate with too-short shorts and the boyfriend who I want to grill about sexing or not-sexing and maybe give him a piece of my mind. Hot Christian friends you may have made out with but have given up on but their eyes light up when you try to set them up with your Christian-virgin guy friends.

Oh, and about getting sexy with friends, do you press on even when you know it will never work even though she's so sweet she never asks you to Bible study and we just hang out Saturday night.

I'm pretty sure it's not friend-zone in these cases because of all people, their friends can't touch.

Not seeking advice since I just leave them be but when a friend visits from out-of-town I wouldn't mind if she would open her mind a bit and see what she's missing out on. I can love my friends. It could be sexy and good for them too. I've broached the topic openly before but then again it might be when one of us is moving away so I'm not going to really push it.

God wants us to enjoy our and not rush into a marriage because you're horny. Modernity is just pushing marriage out further and people have more sophisticated expectations of spouses.

If confirmation bias can be used to justify horrible things, why not use it to justify beautiful, enjoyable things?

Leaving doctrine and "reasoning" aside (God knows I've tried that), any stories?