Going to be at a girl's place this afternoon...

Lemongrass_VII · 2012-05-08T08:14:24+00:00

Just relax - she invited you over. You guys have a vibe and just keep it going and see where it leads you. Trying to push for sex is just going to be weird. And if nothing comes of it you still have a cool female friend you can go out with and pick up other girls (at the very least). Keep your trouser snake at bay...

MissMaria86 · 2012-05-08T09:03:50+00:00

When meeting someone for an "appointment" (date, study group, etc.) I always try to have manners. It seems to be a dying thing these days. If your going to work on a final, some study snacks are a plus! After all of the paperwork and school stuff is done, feel her out to see how hungry she is. If shes up to eating, take her to "a nice little place you know of" if not see if she would be up to getting some pizza and watching game of thrones. Games are also a good icebreaker, does she like video games? or maybe a card or board game?

So a basic plan might be: Study, Food, Game. Sound good?

2012-05-08T09:10:46+00:00

Definitely don't go for Game of Thrones, women aren't too big into fantasy epics these days. The snacks suggestion is legit. If it turns into just kind of chilling out afterwards, have something interesting planned out ahead of time to talk about. Not like...plan a conversation. Have any artistic friends? Show her some of their work, maybe a cool song that you'd think she'd like.

This is actually a very shitty written suggestion, my apologies I can't be of more help. 60mg Adderall in preparation for 3 finals today has me a bit....off.

Wally_B · 2012-05-08T10:29:09+00:00

alright dawg. first rule of having pets is to only have friendly pets when you're single. invite someone over, the animal automatically goes to check out the new person with hands that can pet. you exclaim "oh wow! my cat isn't usually this friendly, especially with guys!"

she is totally rubbing your ego with the animal bit. play it cool. don't push anything to far if you're uncomfortable with it either. but i understand the need for an introvert to want a gameplan going into uncomfortable situations. good luck!

puaCurveBall · 2012-05-08T15:55:22+00:00

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Title	Going to be at a girl's place this afternoon...
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Date	May 8, 2012 7:51 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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