I was at a speed-dating event and I noticed how energetic and engaged a girl was while talking to this one guy. It struck me how if only I knew what he was saying, I might be able to figure out what I'm doing wrong.

Are there any like candid demos out there, not to go to extremes but maybe like hidden-cam? A video or an audio of a successful seduction would probably really help me figure out how to talk to women.