Instead of the usual "play-by-play" analysis, I'm going share some things I've learned over the past two days.

In the past two days I've been on two dates. One was a rescheduled date and the other was an insta-date. Both women have told me that they had had relations with other women before. Same sex relationships (SNL's and experimentation included) among women are WAY more common than they were six years ago when I was dating before I got married (I'm divorced now)-- either in actuality or willingness to be socially open about it. (I obviously cannot comment as to the pure truth on the matter.) My intuition is that men have been disappointing women for a generation or two and they're not willing to put up with their SO's being total pussies like the AFG's most of us used to be. For success with women, you're going to have to get over your own fears and be a MAN who feels accomplished, driven and good unto yourself. From what I've learned here, this is the only way to be truly outcome independent. Women have options, including other women, if a man is not going to be a man.

My date on Sunday night was with a gal who helped style me for a job interview. I'm about to graduate from college and I have a mortgage to pay. The stylist I went out on a date with from the local "expensive mall department store" was a college grad who loves her job, even though she isn't using her education. When she talked about her job, she sounded fulfilled and driven by her work. She, like many other women I meet, doesn't need a man to feel fulfilled. I used to feel like I needed a woman to be complete, and this made me weak. Until you feel fulfilled or driven by what you do independent of others you won't be a man a woman wants. When it came to the issue of sexuality, she talked about how she liked her men "straight," -- more specifically, willing to be themselves, and not the sensitive men that our mothers told us to be. (Taking advice about women from women = fucking stupid) As it turns out, I'm kinda bored by this chick, so I'll probably drop her soon.

The second gal, I met on the street today. I was walking down a hill and saw her jump up on a ledge and start to take some pictures with her phone. She was the type of girl who is spunky, adventurous. I just said "Hey, what are you doing?" and we talked and walked all around the city together. We sat down to eat at a local pub and I noticed she had talked about a lot of guy friends. Ok by me... I said "It seems like you have a lot of guy friends" Her: "Yeah... I do." Me: "I'm not going to be one of those." After we finished our drinks and paid the bill, we both headed for the bathroom. As soon as we got around the corner, we madeout. We left and kept flirting and made out a bunch on the way to her car. I didn't do anything but be me and give value by guiding our walk. I made my intentions clear and she was locked-in. Most AFG's tend to try to "do one thing to get her to like me." The best thing you can do is be confident in your intentions and express them. We have a day-2 planned for next week.

As always, thanks to everyone who posted here and gave me the lessons I need to help me. I'd be glad to hear some feedback about the things I think were most important or notable.