Hey Seddit, this happened Friday night and was by far the best demonstration I've ever had of the importance of social circle preselection (basically making girls from your group attracted to you with little or no real effort).

So not too keen on heading out, I'd spent most of Friday laying around with a fuck buddy (who incidentally was on her period so no goodness, but some head none the less) so I wasn't exactly feeling as if my life depended on going out. It's my three buddy's birthdays and they've decided to throw a big ol bash at their house then buy a bunch of bottles at a great club downtown so hard to resist.

Think about it. I love clubs and all and it doesn't get any better than rolling in with 20 or so of your best friends and owning shit. Goddam definition of preselection.

I get to the house which'll serve as the predrink and start playing some beer pong. The boys have done their best to invite as many girls as possible so I see a good share of beautiful women.

As I'm walking around suddenly I see THE GIRLS of the party. You know exactly what I'm talking about. These girls are 9s on a bad day and tonight they've decided to go full slut. Tight pants, huge tits with no bras, and just living life knowing they're the shit. I have a look at them from behind and keep on talking to the girls around me, trying not to be conspicuous. This girl literally has a g string hanging out of her painted on fucking tights. I know exactly what she's going for but fuck it, I'm down.

Turns out these girls were invited by a buddy of mine and as the whole party is heading to our second destination I hop in a cab with them. At this point I wasn't even really in pick up mode, but just laid back and happy.

I jump in the cab in the back with these two girls to my left. Wearing what they are and obviously just asking for attention they actually get a bit pissed at me for not drooling over them and the smoking blonde one next to me starts asking me questions and rubbing her tits into my shoulder. I give her pretty short answers and try to seem as non interested as possible. No negs or anything (shits lame) but just don't give them the attention they crave. Turns out we have a bunch in common - working out, ethnicity, etc etc and all of a sudden the sluts love me.

BAM I'm in…or so I think. As we're driving and the conversation trails off, blondie next to me starts talking low to her brunette friend and actually gives her a cut across the throat, obviously talking about me. Damn, maybe I said something she didn't like. Nope. As soon as we get to the club and get out, blondie is fucking all over me. Doing her best to grind her huge braless tits into me, she's asking me questions, she's preening, everything, its beautiful. Only problem: I want brunette girl. This should be fun.

We get in and end up going to the wrong club. long story short we end up finally getting to the right table and start in on some of the glorious bottles. At the first chance, I grab brunette's hand and start leading her over to my bud's table.

This move in a crowded club is awesome for two reasons: 1. its a compliance test for brunette and shows her that I'm an alpha dude that can show her the ropes and 2. every other girl in the club sees me with leading a fucking 10 and drooooooooolss. From that point on, every interaction with any other girl in the club was pure gravy. Not sure if it was having a 10 on my arm or just the fucking swagger that you get from it but every other girl in this club was on my dick!

Brunette and I head into the VIP area with a couple of my buddies and brunette holding my hand, bang out some tequila shots, and go sit down on a nice comfy corner. Brunettes other friend also sits down with us and I give them a bit of time to talk and go talk to some bros. Here's another pretty big thing: the girl who brunette is now talking to is a girl I've had a fucking feud with. I don't know what the hell it is with her but every time I see her we end up having a big blow out. My buddies all regard this girl as being a huge douche but I made a bigger man move earlier on in the night. I saw her earlier at the house and made a big deal of actually going over to her (for once were both not wasted when talking) and burying the hatchet with her. Turns out we both couldn't even remember why we disliked each other (and I actually look her in the eye and tell her that previous to this moment I hated her fucking guts) but we end up making up, hugging it out and now have this kind of strange friendship. Beauty. Anyways, now she's talking to brunette, giving me little smiles, and basically egging brunette on.

Boys, the sway other girls have over their friends is enormous, befriend the friends and they'll pave the way to success for you. This girl leaves with a little "well I'll leave you two alone" and a wink and its on baby.

Brunette keeps giving me little eskimo kisses, glancing her lips off mine, then pulling away. Classic push pull, but obviously she's ready. I go in for the kiss a couple times and she turns away (pretty AFC move, oh well). Eventually though I just get fed up and grab her head and press her mouth against mine. She resists for maybe a second then its fucking on. She's dry humping me while we lay horizontally on the VIP bench and forcing her tongue in my mouth with such ferocity I'm actually a little surprised. This carries on for a while then I stop it short and go talk to a couple buddies of mine. Looking back at her, she gives me a look like a little girl whose daddy just canceled their get together plans. I keep talking to my buds but eventually come back to her. She gives me a little cold shoulder, having just left her in mid makeout, but soon its right back on again.

Eventually though she tells me she's leaving soon. Turns out blonde is wasted (maybe she's pissed I rejected her?) and is about to puke in the club. Brunette is unfazed (great friend eh) and tells me we should "go back to your house and drink some more". Here's where the stupidity of drinking too much while picking up comes into full perspective. This girl has just told me that she wants to go back to my house to "drink some more" while we're in the middle of a VIP area packed with full bottles, has a more obvious IOI ever been stated?

In retrospect, and based on the fucking amazing stuff I've been reading on Seddit in the last two days, I think my best move would have been just to lead her to the washroom and fuck her there. We were both obviously into it but the idea didn't even cross my mind. In fact, I didn't even take her back to my place but went back to buddies because he had tons of liquor there, what a dumb fuck eh? So long story short, we head back to the other house, get fucking obliterated on a 40 of Jagr and just pass out in each others arms on my bros bed not having done anything but make out.

Lessons

Now I'm not getting down on myself about this at all. Sure I could have pushed it farther but certain things are clear: 1) the whole night I was the life of the party - I knew every single guy at this party and most of the girls so everywhere I went I had lots of great people to interact and have fun with, and 2) Brunette would probably have slept with me if I had been even a slight bit attentive to her requests. So I'm leaving with this, from now on I intend to surround myself with as many cool guys and girls as possible whenever I go out and when I do go out, I'll leave the bottle chugging to my bros. Cheers Seddit.

TL;DR Was the life of the party, got with my favorite kind of girl.