So yesterday was my IRL cake day. I went out to have a good time. I did. I've been reading from here for the last month or so and it really has altered my thinking and outlook. Thank you Seddit. Back to the heart of the matter I got drunk (obviously) and then I danced with an old FB ( wanted me who is dating a friend, don't fuck friends over) talked to two girls, totally bombed out don't care had fun. Guys just go out and have fun i promise its fun!