What do you guys think about gaming girls while in an LTR?

2012-06-11T17:24:33+00:00

I've gotten to the point where on an average night I'll approach 20+ sets over the night.

That is generally a bad thing because it means your interactions aren't lasting very long.

Anyways, if I was with a girl I loved I would treat her with the same respect that I demanded from her. So I wouldn't be approaching anymore. It sucks though cause if it doesn't work out you are pretty rusty.

puaCurveBall · 2012-06-11T18:50:06+00:00

Your relationship can be whatever you define it to be. As long as you are honest and you guys communicate, nothing you do could ever be unfair to your GF, if you are both ok with the situation.

For some people, what you are doing is cheating. For others, even if you are fucking a different girl every night, you are not cheating.

Why don't you tell her what you do or invite her out with you (and continue to open sets) then communicate about what you guys want?

2012-06-11T18:25:44+00:00

I hear you bro, it's not as easily answered as one who's not into your situation would believe.

I suggest your change your mindset, instead of thinking that you are doing this to keep your skills up, gaming girls but then interrupting before closing. What if you were to think of it as being friendly is part of who you are, and maybe avoid night game venues (bars and clubs) where women there have certain expectations, and continue being your own self and friendly self during day game in day game venues: school, work, on the street, cafe's, grocery stores..... and not just with HBs, but with everyone. Even when you are with your girlfriend, no harm in light talking making an honest comment or remank to someone while you're with your GF if that's who you really are. I do it all the time.

thatsunfortunat3 · 2012-06-11T18:29:44+00:00

First off, 8months is a LTR? yeesh. Anyway, i wont discount your love feelings, so thats more important to me than the length of time discussed above.

To answer this, i think flirting is a natural, healthy human behavior. I think its acceptable as long as it doesnt go beyond that. I think it can actually strengthen relationships because you arent so dependent/needy for one persons affection. You WANT the person youre with and continue to choose just her- instead of NEEDING her. HOWEVER- you must be careful to not cross any lines. Obviously, you know yours and her definition of 'cheating'. Do not cross those. Secondly, i would make sure she has at least some idea of your personality here. If she assumes you dont talk to anyone when you go out, youre making a fool out of both of you. She should know that you are friendly, and like to talk to people. Call it flirting, call it whatever. I wouldnt tell her you talk to 20+ girls a night, but dont act like youre a wallflower either. Maybe bring her out with you sometime and go up to girls with her, so she can see that part of you and doesnt flip out with jealousy. She needs to accept this part of your personality. Make sure she knows that you love her and only her, and stay within boundaries. And dont hurt the people youre flirting with- make sure they know you have a gf(if applicable in the situation) because leading people on isnt good either.

Title	What do you guys think about gaming girls while in an LTR?
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Date	June 11, 2012 5:04 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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