I've heard several definitions of the term but haven't one that was really definitive. I like to consider this the stage in talking to a group or a single woman where they start to ask you questions i.e. you have gained their interest. This can be really helpful as I find I can sometimes talk too much, especially when I'm nervous. But when she starts to speak and ask about me, I know that it's time to lean back and just tell DHV stories as she essentially requests them. Then the fun really begins..