[FR] A night full of lessons, critique me Seddit. Long as shit.

Marsupian · 2012-07-01T17:42:31+00:00

If you want good critique you need to post more details about how the actual sets went.

I open her by asking if she's also waiting for friends and/or if she came here by herself. She tells me that only losers come to clubs by themselves and I disagree with her and explain my POV as I tease her and kino her (pulling her in to talk to her, face touching hers, my arm on hers etc). Her friend comes out, she says maybe she'll see me later, and gives my arm a slight grab as she leaves. Start of the night, first approach, not bad. I forgot her name, oh well.

Sounds all good, you should have went for her number if you wanted to see her again sometimes.

I talk to HB6 and HB8. Talk talk talk, kino kino kino, giggles, finally HB6 goes to the washroom and leaves me with HB8. This is when HB8 truly opens up, starts telling me about her life, school, etc. and she's finally smiling and giggling like HB6. ~5 minutes later HB6 comes back and sits between me and HB8 again.

Why is there enough space in between the two of you for her to sit?
Next time either escalate quicker (when the girlfriend left go for the kiss faster), get her number or leave when the girlfriend comes back and say you'll catch her later. You can also do all of those things.

Open a HB7 after a horde of HB4s and 5s. Wingman does good and distracts 3 HB5s. She's American, same situation as me, lives in USA, comes back to Canada for summers to visit her family. Nice. Here are when mistakes start occurring. I kino well but tease heavily. The teasing seems to be taking its toll (Although I'm all smiles all the time). She calls me judgmental, I agree and amplify. Eventually she "has to go to the washroom" and tells me she'll be right back. I don't usually wait for girls as they go to the washroom, but maybe this time I should have, since her friends didn't leave their spot/go with her.

I'm not sure how or how much you teased her but in general it's not a good idea to constantly rip into a girl with witty comments all the time. Try to build some comfort, give her a complement etc. I think good move would have been to show some vulnerability from yourself to put her at ease a bit, show your confidence and build rapport.

You don't have to "break a girl down", just show her you're a normal cool dude who can have fun and is not afraid to show his intent (let her know you have a boner for her so to speak). From there it's all about escalating, closing and logistics (depending on what you want).

Title	[FR] A night full of lessons, critique me Seddit. Long as shit.
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Date	July 1, 2012 3:19 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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