As an untapped natural I started a new office job booking travel for musicians. It was the perfect opportunity to apply techniques I was previously unconscious of. Things I did but didn't always analyze or apply with aggressive action. Things such as negs, eye-contact, qualifiers, shit-tests, kino. I decided to dress better, work efficiently, and enjoy myself.
A lot of the attention I get is familiar, but what isn't is the way the girls look at me and talk to me. It's more flirtatious, sexual, and aware. They seem to be more aligned with my masculinity.
Today I had two engaged ladies giggling it up and teasing me, shit testing me, eventually they stopped when I said "I can't believe you are both engaged! Now, I have no absolutely no reason to ever come over here." I put them giggling back to college.
But it isn't just the ladies. When I go about my day, I put value in peoples lives by listening, engaging, and letting them know they matter. I can do this because I believe I matter, and because I believe that about myself, people believe I matter, too and then you can instill that in others. Even only for a short period of time.
A handshake with eye contact to a guy you just meet can lift him up, you know. Looking a girl straight into her eyes while having a conversation can make her feel really pretty all day. Also, for the people that don't like me at work, I don't even care. Even if it is one of the bosses I just do my work and don't let it bother me or stress me out.
I guess this falls on more of the self-improvement side of seddit, but it's the PUA techniques that helped me connect a lot of dots and I'm seeing the reward in these new relationships. So, a sincere thank you.
As for the PUA side of the spectrum, I'm letting some things play out. My abundance mentality is high, but still mild. It's at a healthy place. Truth is, I have to get settled in this job before I can venture out too much, but things have been good.
TL;DR Applied PUA techniques to new people at work with positive results both sexually and socially.
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