The other night I was invited to a bonfire of a close friend and was told there would be lots of other people, so I instantly thought "yes, people I went to school with" ...turns out I knew no one there, but still. I talked with a few people but one I stuck my guns to, well we will call her M.

Going through the night I remembered alot of the things that I have read from here and utilized my knowledge to get to know and become friends with M. I listened to what she had to say (though that came naturally and I was instantly interested in what she had told me) and throughout the night we became extremely flirtatious. What was outrageous and didnt occur to me until later in the night was that I used to talk to M, but never met her in person... It was over the internet.

She never recalled, but I remember her adding me on facebook and having her number in my phone. quickly, I deleted her number, and "unfriended" her on facebook to avoid suspicion and having her think I am some sort of creeper.

She sat on my lap and grabbed my phone, laughing and teasing me of my cheesy background with my grandmother and myself and added her number. She later told me that I should text her immediately so we could set something up next week (I told her I have never seen the notebook, and she is forcing me to watch it with her)

So, I have a movie date with a girl.. who leaves for college in 17 days, and am afraid we might fall for each other though we will be hundreds of miles apart. I have noticed our relationship is quickly escalating through how much we already connect. Is this a good move? I havent dated or have had an intimate relationship with someone in over 3 or 4 years..

What has really put me in a tight spot is my close friend who hosted the bonfire. Later that night after all was said and done, he sent a message to me saying he had feelings for her and that he wanted me to find out whether or not she felt the same way... Its really hard for me to tell him, considering how she has been wanting to hang out as much as possible with me before she leaves for college.

So seddit, what do I do? Dive into what may be the worst best choice of my relationship with this girl? or forget it and help a friend out to decide if she wants him. Or am I just over thinking this and moving too fast? Any similar predicaments you have been in? Thank you all!