So basically this was the first girl from tinder that i invited over. She was probably a 5. We eventually sat in my bedroom listening to music but i could not escalate. We smoked, drank a little bit. She left and we didn't have sex or even kiss. I'm dissappointed in myself. Can someone lead me into the right direction or give me the essentials to be able to escalate while in the bedroom, while smoking next to each other or just in general. She wasn't drunk or too high by the way so that into account too. We also aleady met once before to get coffee so it wasn't our first encounter.