LTR said this the other day and followed it up with “you don’t even like me and I never know if you’re going to decide you don’t like me anymore and leave. You don’t appreciate how hard it is to find someone who gets along great with your friends and family. You don’t appreciate me.”

I was not sure what to say so I said “If that were true would I do this” and picked her up and kissed her. Not sure if that was the right reply because something is still bothering her. How should I handle this? How often do I say I love you? It’s basically unavoidable after being with her for 2 years.