Hey Seddit :)

Just a quick question regarding damage control.

After a long period of being down and after finally getting back to the gym, my confidence was back up. I went to a 21st birthday with the intent of being the life of the party - and that I was. I ended up having two girls literally fighting over me at the party (which is actually quite hard to deal with). I ended up k-closing one after the other left the party.

I ended up setting up date with both that week. Admittedly I felt more of a connection with one more than the other but practice makes perfect right? I took the one I liked better out on Tuesday night and had a fun night, though I became quite nervous on the date and went AFC as I went in for the kiss, though I manned up and just did it.

She messaged me the next day setting up the 2nd date and we caught up the next morning where I was much more confident - I think I may have screwed things up by being too greedy though. As we were saying goodbye for the morning I went in for another kiss (in a very public place) whilst she went for the kiss on the cheek/hug but ended turning it into a peck kiss and things were obviously weird. She text me immediately text me saying "that goodbye was awkward" to which I replied "You are way too sexually agressive, I was going for hug!" She has basically gone cold on the communication after that and I think it was because of my wanting to kiss her in a public place (which I think she was understandably uncomfortable about).

How can I handle the current situation? / Can I resurrect it?

How would you of handled a similair situation if you were in it?

Also any advice is also very welcome!