My pastor told this story about these ducks. Mind you this was for faith reasons, but it carries over much more into this sub-culture of seduction IMO:
There was this establishment of ducks that never flew anywhere because they never felt the need to do so. It wasn't until a bit later that they started hearing about adventures, better food supply, and nicer ponds. They started grumbling about how bad the village they lived in was, but never did anything about it.
One day, the leader of the ducks, who had decided to fly, congregated the village. He started explaining what he had seen, what was much better if they would travel. The ducks were all very excited. In fact, they were in an uproar, screaming and cheering (more like quacking) because they all wanted to fly off to better places. The story gave them hope. The leader duck reminded them all that they can fly, that they can go to these better places. Nothing sounded better, nor inspired the ducks more. They went home and talked about it with each other, but never flew away to where everything better awaited. They just waddled around as usual talking about how great it would be to fly.
Seddit: It doesn't matter if you know all the jargon of this sub-culture. If you don't get out there and talk to girls, you're the fucking ducks in the story. You were programmed biologically to find a mate. You actually can do it. Go out there and talk to some girls instead of reading a couple of field reports, opening a porn tab, fapping, and playing WOW. If you can fly and you want to then fly. It doesn't matter where you are. A college, a bar, a coffee shop, a store. Just talk to girls.
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