Hey guys im recently new to seddit and the pick up community in general and as I will be in spain for 10 days as of tomorrow I wanted some advice on how to game in a foreign country.
The main obstacle I think would be that you dont even know if the target can understand you at all when you try an approach.
As I say I'm pretty new to pick up so as I understand it generally the way pick up works is you open a set using an opener. Then you build attraction. Then you kino escalate. Then if you have a good number of IOI's you can attempt a kiss close or a number close.
I don't really know how to do any of the above but the basics I have learnt so far is:
smile a lot.
maintain eye contact.
approach at an angle...lean back when you are stationary...move slowly.
speak slowly and often. listen, ask questions, make observations.
I dont know particularly how, but at least that stuff I think I can attempt in some way.
Building attraction - not sure, I'm hoping that I will be able to tell pretty quickly from the conversation how she is reacting with negative body language or if she is responding to the convo.
Then kino escalation. I have no idea how I would go in for an initial touch of any kind let alone get increasingly touchy. How do you know when its acceptable or what is an innocent/playful way of starting kino and escalating it.
And despite having a very basic understanding of all of those, having to approach a girl who may not even understand a word I am saying, is unbelievably daunting.
Appreciating all the advice in advanced :)
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